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Post by ant-mac on Sept 15, 2021 21:57:18 GMT
And when did I ever say that you said anything else? You seem to be a victim of you jumping to an erroneous conclusion. You are the one who asked, "According to who?" (And the correct grammar is, "According to whom?" Not who.) 1. Which does not discount my previous comment. It was a question, not a command or a statement. 2. In some quarters, however the English language - in fact all languages - are constantly changing and evolving.
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Post by movieliker on Sept 15, 2021 21:57:46 GMT
No, you are wrong. Being polite, respectful, considerate and thoughtful are good virtues. Being rude, disrespectful and insulting are bad character flaws. And she did all of that by not contacting you back after you guys had a one night stand? This thread is not addressing any after night activity. It's my stated opinion --- and that of most men I have talked with --- that leaving immediately after sex --- after a proper date --- is rude. And I'm not talking about casual sex, bootie calls, one night stands, etc.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 15, 2021 21:59:38 GMT
If it was a first date, it means she's a ho. Lol stirring the pot
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Post by Deleted on Sept 15, 2021 22:02:20 GMT
No, just different expectations. Let's not be hyperbolic... "Owed" makes it sound different though. If I am taken out to dinner in exchange for sex it makes it sound like I was paid for and was now in obligation. Women still prefer to set their prices themselves. And in that case, most men couldn't pay. So, let's get these stupid ideas dinner vs. sex out of the way. Because then no woman would go out to dinner with anybody. Then take the cash and start with four digits. We're still talking about movieliker right? From what I can gather, he just thought it was rude
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Post by ant-mac on Sept 15, 2021 22:03:34 GMT
And she did all of that by not contacting you back after you guys had a one night stand? This thread is not addressing any after night activity. It's my stated opinion --- and that of most men I have talked with --- that leaving immediately after sex --- after a proper date --- is rude. And I'm not talking about casual sex, bootie calls, one night stands, etc. She appears to be a busy woman who still managed to make time in her tight schedule to fuck your brains out... What more did you want? Applause? Cheers? Fireworks? It sounds to me like your ego's been bruised.
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Post by movieliker on Sept 15, 2021 22:04:49 GMT
You are the one who asked, "According to who?" (And the correct grammar is, "According to whom?" Not who.) Relax. What often helps in these situations is to reverse the whole thing. What would you think if this wasn't your story, but somebody else's? What would you advise if your friend was telling you what you just told us? You know, you strike me as a rather reasonable guy, even more so for a conservative. I don't understand why you make such a fuss about it. And honestly, for now it looks like a hurt ego. Nothing more. Which, of course, is always bad enough. It's happened to me too many times. And it's supposedly happens to other men. It's our opinion that it's rude to leave immediately after sex --- after a "proper date". People have the right to be offended, or get their feelings hurt, when treated disrespectfully --- undeservedly.
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Post by movieliker on Sept 15, 2021 22:07:22 GMT
This thread is not addressing any after night activity. It's my stated opinion --- and that of most men I have talked with --- that leaving immediately after sex --- after a proper date --- is rude. And I'm not talking about casual sex, bootie calls, one night stands, etc. She appears to be a busy woman who still managed to make time in her tight schedule to fuck your brains out... What more did you want? Applause? Cheers? Fireworks? It sounds to me like your ego's been bruised. Being busy is no excuse for being rude.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 15, 2021 22:10:30 GMT
And she did all of that by not contacting you back after you guys had a one night stand? This thread is not addressing any after night activity. It's my stated opinion --- and that of most men I have talked with --- that leaving immediately after sex --- after a proper date --- is rude. And I'm not talking about casual sex, bootie calls, one night stands, etc. That behavior is something we learned from men. Tell those men to shut up. And how was it not a one night stand and no casual sex? Did you have a written contract? You know, maybe she feels guilty or she feels ashamed because she realized it was a mistake, for whatever reason and she wanted to pull out. I don't blame her for not being able to say in bed, "listen, it won't work out with us because I don't have those feelings" or "I don't know what I am feeling."
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Post by Deleted on Sept 15, 2021 22:11:52 GMT
Relax. What often helps in these situations is to reverse the whole thing. What would you think if this wasn't your story, but somebody else's? What would you advise if your friend was telling you what you just told us? You know, you strike me as a rather reasonable guy, even more so for a conservative. I don't understand why you make such a fuss about it. And honestly, for now it looks like a hurt ego. Nothing more. Which, of course, is always bad enough. It's happened to me too many times. And it's supposedly happens to other men. It's our opinion that it's rude to leave immediately after sex --- after a "proper date". People have the right to be offended, or get their feelings hurt, when treated disrespectfully --- undeservedly. I agree on that. But ant-mac, might have a point about expectations. Maybe you guys expect too much. Lol. I always thought women expected too much. What a world.
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Post by ant-mac on Sept 15, 2021 22:12:25 GMT
She appears to be a busy woman who still managed to make time in her tight schedule to fuck your brains out... What more did you want? Applause? Cheers? Fireworks? It sounds to me like your ego's been bruised. Being busy is no excuse for being rude. If this were the case, I'd agree. But it's not. She said she had fun, but explained she had to go. It seems pretty straight forward to me.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 15, 2021 22:12:46 GMT
"Owed" makes it sound different though. If I am taken out to dinner in exchange for sex it makes it sound like I was paid for and was now in obligation. Women still prefer to set their prices themselves. And in that case, most men couldn't pay. So, let's get these stupid ideas dinner vs. sex out of the way. Because then no woman would go out to dinner with anybody. Then take the cash and start with four digits. We're still talking about movieliker right? From what I can gather, he just thought it was rude If that is the case, movieliker, should tell her that it was rude and be done with it.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 15, 2021 22:15:20 GMT
This thread is not addressing any after night activity. It's my stated opinion --- and that of most men I have talked with --- that leaving immediately after sex --- after a proper date --- is rude. And I'm not talking about casual sex, bootie calls, one night stands, etc. That behavior is something we learned from men. Tell those men to shut up. And how was it not a one night stand and no casual sex? Did you have a written contract? You know, maybe she feels guilty or she feels ashamed because she realized it was a mistake, for whatever reason and she wanted to pull out. I don't blame her for not being able to say in bed, "listen, it won't work out with us because I don't have those feelings" or "I don't know what I am feeling." Lol yes evil men. Women suddenly arent independent and strong? Or are they still damsels in distress? Cant have it both ways
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Post by Deleted on Sept 15, 2021 22:15:57 GMT
We're still talking about movieliker right? From what I can gather, he just thought it was rude If that is the case, movieliker , should tell her that it was rude and be done with it. The way I see it, he was just venting too
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Post by movieliker on Sept 15, 2021 22:16:21 GMT
This thread is not addressing any after night activity. It's my stated opinion --- and that of most men I have talked with --- that leaving immediately after sex --- after a proper date --- is rude. And I'm not talking about casual sex, bootie calls, one night stands, etc. That behavior is something we learned from men. Tell those men to shut up. And how was it not a one night stand and no casual sex? Did you have a written contract? You know, maybe she feels guilty or she feels ashamed because she realized it was a mistake, for whatever reason and she wanted to pull out. I don't blame her for not being able to say in bed, "listen, it won't work out with us because I don't have those feelings" or "I don't know what I am feeling." I agree men have done that too many times and for too often. But that doesn't give women the right to do that to a stranger that has done nothing but be respectful to them. Two wrongs don't make a right. In my case, there was no indication I wanted anything more than friendship. So, alleged panicking over a supposed misunderstanding does not apply. Of course there are explanations for their behavior. But it's still wrong. The most probable explanation is she is just rude, disrespectful, inconsiderate, and thoughtless.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 15, 2021 22:19:57 GMT
That behavior is something we learned from men. Tell those men to shut up. And how was it not a one night stand and no casual sex? Did you have a written contract? You know, maybe she feels guilty or she feels ashamed because she realized it was a mistake, for whatever reason and she wanted to pull out. I don't blame her for not being able to say in bed, "listen, it won't work out with us because I don't have those feelings" or "I don't know what I am feeling." Lol yes evil men. Women suddenly arent independent and strong? Or are they still damsels in distress? Cant have it both ways WHAT? WTF?
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