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Post by kuatorises on Apr 19, 2024 15:09:32 GMT
The fuck is a tradwife? A stay-at-home mom? Or is it some weird religious version of it?
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Post by Toxicalicity on Apr 19, 2024 15:10:35 GMT
Nothing inherently wrong with it. It's just that when you make too fine a point out of being an ideological "Tradwive", I suspect you'll only end up being too self-conscious about it. That never ends well, imo. Just allow yourself and your partner to gravitate towards your natural states - whatever those may be. You can't make an informed choice if you're not aware of the choices you make. Self-awareness =/= self-consciousness. You can be keenly aware of who you are and what you stand for, but certain aspects of your decision-making are best left to instinct. Incessantly talking about it and listening to propaganda on podcasts or in YT/TikTok videos is likely only going to make you more calculating, insecure and desperate to prove yourself sociopolitically.
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Post by darkramj on Apr 19, 2024 15:17:21 GMT
The fuck is a tradwife? A stay-at-home mom? Or is it some weird religious version of it? It's popular among religiously inclined populations, but really it's just short for "traditional wife" and there isn't an exact definition for that, as traditions come from domains as broad as culture and national ancestry to individual family history. Basically, the rejection of general lifestyle choices a married woman regards as new-agey bullshit.
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Post by uncreative on Apr 19, 2024 15:20:39 GMT
The fuck is a tradwife? A stay-at-home mom? Or is it some weird religious version of it? Kind of. A lot of influencers on TikTok or Instagram like making videos about how great their tradwife lifestyle is. Except they turned making videos into their full time jobs while hiring caregivers to do the stuff you normally think of housewives doing. And then the guys that are into the whole tradwife thing tend to be far right incels who don't have anything useful to offer. If the husband is a doctor or lawyer or the couple just lives in a really low cost are it can work but most of the online stuff you see is selling a fake and sanitized version.
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Post by CheetahCandy (kitty katty) on Apr 19, 2024 15:27:17 GMT
Nothing wrong with a woman who wants to be a homemaker
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Post by Fetzer Zinfandel ♀︎ on Apr 19, 2024 15:29:23 GMT
I couldn't care less if someone wants to be a "tradwife". They can be chattel if they want to. Being a moron is fine with me. I care they try to push their agenda. Sound familiar? They're not chattel, not morons, and the only thing they can possibly do to "push their agenda" is live a happy life and others try to copy it, but those women also have a choice. Therefore it's feminism as well. LOL. Sure pal.
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Post by Fetzer Zinfandel ♀︎ on Apr 19, 2024 15:30:10 GMT
The fuck is a tradwife? A stay-at-home mom? Or is it some weird religious version of it? People who don't think I should have the right to vote. twitter.com/tradwifetoday
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Post by darkramj on Apr 19, 2024 15:38:29 GMT
The fuck is a tradwife? A stay-at-home mom? Or is it some weird religious version of it? People who don't think I should have the right to vote. twitter.com/tradwifetodayConsidering how much worse your vote has made things...
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Post by geddy on Apr 19, 2024 15:44:18 GMT
Considering how much worse your vote has made things... What does that mean?
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Post by kuatorises on Apr 19, 2024 15:46:18 GMT
The fuck is a tradwife? A stay-at-home mom? Or is it some weird religious version of it? It's popular among religiously inclined populations, but really it's just short for "traditional wife" and there isn't an exact definition for that, as traditions come from domains as broad as culture and national ancestry to individual family history. Basically, the rejection of general lifestyle choices a married woman regards as new-agey bullshit. This woman apparently says she is submissive to her husband:
That's slightly concerning.
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Post by Fetzer Zinfandel ♀︎ on Apr 19, 2024 15:47:54 GMT
It's popular among religiously inclined populations, but really it's just short for "traditional wife" and there isn't an exact definition for that, as traditions come from domains as broad as culture and national ancestry to individual family history. Basically, the rejection of general lifestyle choices a married woman regards as new-agey bullshit. This woman apparently says she is submissive to her husband:
That's slightly concerning.
That's the gist.
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Post by kiwi on Apr 19, 2024 15:57:21 GMT
In the western world every woman who calls herself a tradwife chose to be one. Therefore, why does anyone have a problem with it? If you can't let a grown woman choose to pursue the life she wants, you're by definition not a feminist. Nothing is wrong with being a traditional wife as long as it's a choice. I have colleagues who would love to be traditional wives but financial needs necessitate their working. I felt very fortunate that when our children were small, I was in a position to leave work until they went to school. I loved every minute of those years. I also love having a career, earning money and having a larger life, overall, than I would have had if I stayed home after the kids were in school. To each, her own. Choice. Always, choice.
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Post by darkramj on Apr 19, 2024 15:58:07 GMT
Considering how much worse your vote has made things... What does that mean? It means that when things go to shit because of how women (or anyone, really) like Fetz mindlessly cast their vote...there's a valid argument to be made against people who vote for things going to shit having one. The Constitution deters the most obvious correction of that problem, but that's not a valid argument against it being a problem. And since people like Fetz don't care about the constitution where other people's rights are concerned...other people may come to not care about hers and that will be a bed she made for herself to potentially sleep in. People like Fetz make it reasonable to consider that maybe if you burn the American flag, you don't get to vote in American elections, for example.
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Post by darkramj on Apr 19, 2024 16:05:57 GMT
It's popular among religiously inclined populations, but really it's just short for "traditional wife" and there isn't an exact definition for that, as traditions come from domains as broad as culture and national ancestry to individual family history. Basically, the rejection of general lifestyle choices a married woman regards as new-agey bullshit. This woman apparently says she is submissive to her husband:
That's slightly concerning.
It's no concern of yours, really. A person who is submissive by nature lives in their own personal hell without someone who cares about them being responsible for needs the submissive is paralyzed managing themselves. This is a person who spends an hour staring at a restaurant menu unable to make a choice when they know they want the herb chicken most...they need someone in their life who knows that and can step up and say for them, "She (or he) will have the herb chicken". Such a person (and they are rare) should not have to be denied the peace of mind that comes from being looked out for by their partner just because they don't fulfil the image of the person YOU think they should be instead.
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Post by merh on Apr 19, 2024 16:06:28 GMT
It means that when things go to shit because of how women (or anyone, really) like Fetz mindlessly cast their vote...there's a valid argument to be made against people who vote for things going to shit having one. The Constitution deters the most obvious correction of that problem, but that's not a valid argument against it being a problem. And since people like Fetz don't care about the constitution where other people's rights are concerned...other people may come to not care about hers and that will be a bed she made for herself to potentially sleep in. People like Fetz make it reasonable to consider that maybe if you burn the American flag, you don't get to vote in American elections, for example.
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