I was sitting next to some morbidly obese woman at a cafe

don't knock it, she can probably suck start a Peterbilt

I used to work with this really big (300+ pounds) girl. She had a profile set up on one of those dating web sites. Every weekend it was the same thing....On Friday she would be all excited about the date she had set up for the weekend and on Monday she would come in all depressed because the guy wasn't interested after they had met. I suppose she was a nice enough girl and I felt kind of sorry for her. I took a look at her profile page from the dating site. She was using a picture that had to be 15+ years old and she listed her body type as "medium." I wanted to tell her to use a current picture and to be honest in describing herself...."Boys, if you like fat girls then I'm the one for you!" I figured that there are guys out there who actually like fat girls and that way her potential suitor would know up front what they were getting into. But I didn't have the heart to say anything. None of my business and I didn't want to hurt her feelings.

On a similar note, my platoon sergeant once said he liked fat women. I asked him why and he said "That way I have something to hide behind when the wife comes in shooting." :D

I don't understand why fat girls won't just be honest about who they are. There are guys who like the big chicks, I like girls who have a little meat on their seat to be honest.

I hate the trend about complaining over "body shaming", as if you have a right to be found attractive.

Are there guys who like really big chicks? Yes we all like curvy but what about round and fat? Because I am sceptical that they exist. Like are there really guys who would turn down a normal girl to be with a huge woman?

I’m not being judgemental. I hope there are guys like that. But I figure that it’s not true.

Also HBC had views on that.