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Post by ayatollah on Dec 24, 2017 19:05:44 GMT
Hey, if "White Christmas" is an alt-right racist anthem, then "Baby, It's Cold Outside" is definitely on the way out. Quick, boring story: Until a couple of years ago, my son took piano from the same teacher who also taught voice to some young aspiring musical theater-type kids. For over a decade, every single Winter Recital (which obviously I attended to hear my son play) would feature a different pair of her students doing that as a duet. It got more uncomfortable with each passing year. I wonder if she still has them do it. The real problem with the song is that it is a duet of two people expressing outwardly opposing ideas, but with subtext that they both want the same thing though neither is allowed by societal norms to say so. Once those subtextual morays are wiped away, the whole concept collapses and becomes open to new interpretation under the new social code, so pretty much that means it's a date rape song today. You know the more I think about it the more sage and insightful this post is. When this song was written in 1944 it was totally taboo for an unmarried couple to have sex, or even spend time together alone. The male never says he wants sex, he simply says it's cold out. Neither he nor her can say what they're both thinking. |
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Post by movieliker on Dec 24, 2017 23:15:24 GMT
It is so easy to get laid these days, if you have to persuade a woman to have sex, you are wasting your time with her. There are many more women out there who won't have to be persuaded. Just dump her and move on. This is something a man with little experience of women would say. There is a thrill to the antagonistic nature of sex that both men and women enjoy. Women enjoy it when men show how aggressively they want their woman. The push and pull is part of the excitement and the notion that no ALWAYS means no is the most delusional narrative of recent years. It doesn't always mean no. The other day, I came home from work and started kissing my girlfriend. She started pushing me off and saying no. I then said... okay fine, forget it. She then laughed because we both knew she wanted me to fuck her and it was funny because I called her bluff. No can mean a million things. Baloney. The best sex is with a woman who wants to have sex. Not one who needs to be persuaded. Sounds like to me, you are the one who has little experience with women Hux. |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 24, 2017 23:26:27 GMT
Why can’t guys just take the hint? If she’s not into you, why be so desperate?
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Post by Deleted on Dec 24, 2017 23:56:10 GMT
This is something a man with little experience of women would say. There is a thrill to the antagonistic nature of sex that both men and women enjoy. Women enjoy it when men show how aggressively they want their woman. The push and pull is part of the excitement and the notion that no ALWAYS means no is the most delusional narrative of recent years. It doesn't always mean no. The other day, I came home from work and started kissing my girlfriend. She started pushing me off and saying no. I then said... okay fine, forget it. She then laughed because we both knew she wanted me to fuck her and it was funny because I called her bluff. No can mean a million things. Baloney. The best sex is with a woman who wants to have sex. Not one who needs to be persuaded. Sounds like to me, you are the one who has little experience with women Hux. Given that the sex in question was with a woman who wanted sex, I'll assume you're both an idiot and a virgin. It's got nothing to do with persuasion; it has everything to do with passion. Once you get past the hand-holding stage, you might have a better understanding of what I'm talking about. Sex has an aggressive element that both women and men enjoy equally. There is a violence inherent within it (when it's done properly) and consent is never an infantile verbal expression but instead something more visceral and unspoken. I hope you get there one day. |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 24, 2017 23:57:23 GMT
Why can’t guys just take the hint? If she’s not into you, why be so desperate? And if she is into you but enjoys the game? |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 25, 2017 0:05:10 GMT
This is supposed to be a song about rape now? It's a classic Christmas duet where a male singer tries to get the female to stay the night with him, he keeps coming up with reasons for her to stay and she keeps coming up with reasons to go. When did persuasion become force? If a guy trying to persuade a girl to have sex is rape, then would collecting donations for charity be robbery? Rumors are that there are two evil mutations of feminist and MGTOW movements currently under motion: menagainstwomenmovement.blogspot.com/ The Rules of MAW (Men Against Women) 1) You do not talk about MAW 2) You DO NOT talk about MAW 3) You will rape women 4) Only two guys to start a rape 5) One rape at a time 6) No condoms. Spread diseases. 7) Rapes will go on as long as they have to. 8) If this is your first night at MAW CLUB, you HAVE to rape. womenagainstmenmovement.blogspot.comThe Rules of WAM (Women Against Men) 1) You do not talk about WAM 2) You DO NOT talk about WAM 3) You will accuse men of rape. You will destroy their lives in every way possible. 4) Only two females to start a false rape allegation 5) Many false rape allegations at a time 6) Spread your legs. Spread diseases. 7) Men will go behind prison as long as they have to. 8) If this is your first night at MAW CLUB, you HAVE to gape. www.newsgossipbull.com/2017/12/evil-mutations-of-mgtow-feminist.html |
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Post by ayatollah on Dec 25, 2017 3:36:29 GMT
This is something a man with little experience of women would say. There is a thrill to the antagonistic nature of sex that both men and women enjoy. Women enjoy it when men show how aggressively they want their woman. The push and pull is part of the excitement and the notion that no ALWAYS means no is the most delusional narrative of recent years. It doesn't always mean no. The other day, I came home from work and started kissing my girlfriend. She started pushing me off and saying no. I then said... okay fine, forget it. She then laughed because we both knew she wanted me to fuck her and it was funny because I called her bluff. No can mean a million things. Baloney. The best sex is with a woman who wants to have sex. Not one who needs to be persuaded. Sounds like to me, you are the one who has little experience with women Hux. By "man of little experience" he means you don't know how to romance a woman. |
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Post by ayatollah on Dec 25, 2017 3:37:21 GMT
Why can’t guys just take the hint? If she’s not into you, why be so desperate? Because she is, but she isn't going to put it all out right away. |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 25, 2017 3:47:19 GMT
Why can’t guys just take the hint? If she’s not into you, why be so desperate? Because she is, but she isn't going to put it all out right away. You cannot just sssume every female wants you. If she’s showing no interest, then fall back. If she reaches out to you again at another time, then you’ll know she’s really interested. |
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Post by ayatollah on Dec 25, 2017 5:00:03 GMT
Because she is, but she isn't going to put it all out right away. You cannot just sssume every female wants you. If she’s showing no interest, then fall back. If she reaches out to you again at another time, then you’ll know she’s really interested. I'm not talking about showing no interest, I'm talking about showing all kinds of interest but simply not saying "Yes lets have sex". |
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Post by Harold of Whoa on Dec 25, 2017 5:17:30 GMT
You cannot just sssume every female wants you. If she’s showing no interest, then fall back. If she reaches out to you again at another time, then you’ll know she’s really interested. I'm not talking about showing no interest, I'm talking about showing all kinds of interest but simply not saying "Yes lets have sex". Declarations have almost magical power these days. Declare "I identify as a woman" and viola! Doesn't matter what your chromosomes are, doesn't matter what tackle you are sporting, doesn't matter how you look or dress or how you "identified" yesterday, doesn't matter if you have a doctor's note. Declare "Black lives matter!" and you're in; declare "All lives matter!" and you're out. Subtlety, logic, non-verbal communication, symbolism...these concepts are passe. You and your wife can be that way in private, but if you were students on a university campus, you would be indoctrinated with what Rissa is saying and much more. Declare yourself. Are you an ally? Then shut the hell up and stand where you're told. Not an ally? Then prepare to be cast out, white patriarchal devil. |
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Post by movieliker on Dec 25, 2017 7:47:26 GMT
Baloney. The best sex is with a woman who wants to have sex. Not one who needs to be persuaded. Sounds like to me, you are the one who has little experience with women Hux. Given that the sex in question was with a woman who wanted sex, I'll assume you're both an idiot and a virgin. It's got nothing to do with persuasion; it has everything to do with passion. Once you get past the hand-holding stage, you might have a better understanding of what I'm talking about. Sex has an aggressive element that both women and men enjoy equally. There is a violence inherent within it (when it's done properly) and consent is never an infantile verbal expression but instead something more visceral and unspoken. I hope you get there one day. Yeah, Hux. You don't know what you are talking about. Not the slightest clue. |
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Post by movieliker on Dec 25, 2017 7:50:28 GMT
Baloney. The best sex is with a woman who wants to have sex. Not one who needs to be persuaded. Sounds like to me, you are the one who has little experience with women Hux. By "man of little experience" he means you don't know how to romance a woman. I am not talking about romance. I am talking about the first time two people have sex. Regardless of whether romance is involved. The best sex is when both people want it. Not when one has to be persuaded. |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 25, 2017 10:27:27 GMT
Given that the sex in question was with a woman who wanted sex, I'll assume you're both an idiot and a virgin. It's got nothing to do with persuasion; it has everything to do with passion. Once you get past the hand-holding stage, you might have a better understanding of what I'm talking about. Sex has an aggressive element that both women and men enjoy equally. There is a violence inherent within it (when it's done properly) and consent is never an infantile verbal expression but instead something more visceral and unspoken. I hope you get there one day. Yeah, Hux. You don't know what you are talking about. Not the slightest clue. You've still got time, lad. Never lose hope. |
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Post by Flying Monkeys on Dec 25, 2017 11:21:38 GMT
This is something a man with little experience of women would say. There is a thrill to the antagonistic nature of sex that both men and women enjoy. Women enjoy it when men show how aggressively they want their woman. The push and pull is part of the excitement and the notion that no ALWAYS means no is the most delusional narrative of recent years. It doesn't always mean no. The other day, I came home from work and started kissing my girlfriend. She started pushing me off and saying no. I then said... okay fine, forget it. She then laughed because we both knew she wanted me to fuck her and it was funny because I called her bluff. No can mean a million things. So many things wrong with this post. 1. You don't have a job. 2. You don't have a girlfriend. 3. You didn't kiss anyone. 4. You've never had sex. Let the standard internet squabble commence.... |
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