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Post by Prince Myshkin on Apr 10, 2024 15:53:04 GMT
Or did we? I'd say, we did not.
You should have set some boundaries. I tried to get metaphysical about it but y'all ignored me. I'm starting to regret that I taught Toasty about the Homo Superior and the lowly breeders.
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Post by Stammerhead on Apr 10, 2024 15:59:42 GMT
You should have set some boundaries. I tried to get metaphysical about it but y'all ignored me. I'm starting to regret that I taught Toasty about the Homo Superior and the lowly breeders. So is the rest of Planet Earth.
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Post by Prince Myshkin on Apr 10, 2024 16:00:08 GMT
I never had a problem with my parents. They pretty much gave me what I needed to succeed in life. They didn't like me being gay in the beginning, but they got used to it. The point I'm attempting to make, is more about how much the breeder has its head buried in the sand, parental units or not. Both my folks are still alive and I have constant contact with them, they live across the Tasman. I will be visiting with them in under 2 weeks as they are too old and frail to travel now. As far as my childhood goes and any resentments and misgivings I have, I can only meet them half way with any forgiveness. Too much emotional and even some physical abuse that need not have been present, if not for their ignorance. I appreciated my childhood in the sense of where I grew up and some of the things I had and some of the things we did. I wouldn't change that for the world. My dad though can be a self-pitying and controlling narcissist at times. His pride refuses to let go and at 87 the controlling games he still plays is pathetic . He's a bully with SMS - (small man syndrome) - and can't take his own medicine when confronted. He starts crying. It is pitiful, but I take the high road 99% of the time because its not worth the argument, especially at his age. I have made more peace with my mother, due to her health condition and an inner strength that has kept her alive, especially when we thought we had lost her a couple of years ago. She is a simpleminded woman and could be very toxic. She doesn't appear to have the same energy for this anymore. These fools, should not have been breeding. Okay. My dad was an asshole when I was a kid but when I got older I learned to appreciate him. My mother has always been a Madonna and an earth goddess. She was never toxic and controlling like a lot of gay men's mothers. She always encouraged my independence.
You don't regret that you're here though, right? Life is a wonderful opportunity, especially for us hedonists. I don't understand the nihilism.
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Post by Roxy on Apr 10, 2024 16:48:50 GMT
My life consists of not doing things.
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Post by PaulsLaugh on Apr 10, 2024 18:50:20 GMT
What else is there to do? Our religions tells us this is mankind’s punishment for being born. You’re lucky a lot of the things you get to do while waiting to die are fun.
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Post by PaulsLaugh on Apr 10, 2024 18:51:53 GMT
Buddha taught that the key to life is doing nothing. He even taught his followers to clear their minds of any thoughts. Maybe you should become a Buddhist. You're mixing up Buddhism and The Big Lebowski Yeah, the Buddha also said, if you ever meet on him on the road, kill him.
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Post by ShadowSouL Likes This on Apr 11, 2024 2:44:28 GMT
Isn't it funny the way this thread's going? It was boring. We needed a dose of faggotry. We could use a bit of assholery.
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Post by Flying Monkeys on Apr 11, 2024 3:46:10 GMT
It was boring. We needed a dose of faggotry. We could use a bit of assholery. Power Ranger - get in here!
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Post by SixOfTheRichest on Apr 11, 2024 6:52:56 GMT
The point I'm attempting to make, is more about how much the breeder has its head buried in the sand, parental units or not. Both my folks are still alive and I have constant contact with them, they live across the Tasman. I will be visiting with them in under 2 weeks as they are too old and frail to travel now. As far as my childhood goes and any resentments and misgivings I have, I can only meet them half way with any forgiveness. Too much emotional and even some physical abuse that need not have been present, if not for their ignorance. I appreciated my childhood in the sense of where I grew up and some of the things I had and some of the things we did. I wouldn't change that for the world. My dad though can be a self-pitying and controlling narcissist at times. His pride refuses to let go and at 87 the controlling games he still plays is pathetic . He's a bully with SMS - (small man syndrome) - and can't take his own medicine when confronted. He starts crying. It is pitiful, but I take the high road 99% of the time because its not worth the argument, especially at his age. I have made more peace with my mother, due to her health condition and an inner strength that has kept her alive, especially when we thought we had lost her a couple of years ago. She is a simpleminded woman and could be very toxic. She doesn't appear to have the same energy for this anymore. These fools, should not have been breeding. Okay. My dad was an asshole when I was a kid but when I got older I learned to appreciate him. My mother has always been a Madonna and an earth goddess. She was never toxic and controlling like a lot of gay men's mothers. She always encouraged my independence.
You don't regret that you're here though, right? Life is a wonderful opportunity, especially for us hedonists. I don't understand the nihilism.
You have several siblings don't you? If so, I doubt that your mother would have even contemplated homosexuality in any of her children. If you were an only kid perhaps and no father in the picture, your mother may have been controlling and protective of you. My mother could be controlling, but she could also be easy to manipulate at times too. She didn't know, (and still doesn't), know much about what she is talking about. This would frustrate me to the max as a kid, as it was more difficult as a child to articulate to her and her toxic, misguided judgements.
I'm pleased I got away eventually in my very early 20's and while confidence was knocked right out of me, I managed to regain some via other outlets, but not really until I was in my 30's. I love my folks, I just find it difficult to respect them as parents and humans in certain ways. Both a product of their era, but sometimes I think that notion is just an excuse, because there are plenty of older generations that aren't so sequestered.
Life may be a wonderful opportunity for many, but ultimately it is a learning opportunity to know that one doesn't need to be human to have awareness. The suffering and lack of accountability humans can create and don't take accountability for is staggering to my mind. Many people born are just really existing, not really living. They were born out of their own parents self-gratification and ignorance of conditioning. The breeder is the only one to blame here.
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Post by C-3POtatoe on Apr 11, 2024 22:42:19 GMT
Well, I don't want to seem like a bummer but one thing I gotta say.
On the cam site, there use to be some hot women on there. But now, they've all gone away. For the most part, now there's no hot girls left.
Now, the few left that are half way decent... don't compare to some past females that were on there.
So now, I gotta wait , hoping that some hot women will appear on the site. I'm going through a rough time right now.
What do you speculate is the reason for this shift of hotness or lack thereof on cam sites? I've been pondering that, for quite some time.
I miss, the babes honestly.
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Post by maninasuitcase on Apr 12, 2024 7:55:39 GMT
I prefer doin thangs.
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Post by Prince Myshkin on Apr 13, 2024 19:52:39 GMT
Okay. My dad was an asshole when I was a kid but when I got older I learned to appreciate him. My mother has always been a Madonna and an earth goddess. She was never toxic and controlling like a lot of gay men's mothers. She always encouraged my independence.
You don't regret that you're here though, right? Life is a wonderful opportunity, especially for us hedonists. I don't understand the nihilism.
You have several siblings don't you? If so, I doubt that your mother would have even contemplated homosexuality in any of her children. If you were an only kid perhaps and no father in the picture, your mother may have been controlling and protective of you. My mother could be controlling, but she could also be easy to manipulate at times too. She didn't know, (and still doesn't), know much about what she is talking about. This would frustrate me to the max as a kid, as it was more difficult as a child to articulate to her and her toxic, misguided judgements.
I'm pleased I got away eventually in my very early 20's and while confidence was knocked right out of me, I managed to regain some via other outlets, but not really until I was in my 30's. I love my folks, I just find it difficult to respect them as parents and humans in certain ways. Both a product of their era, but sometimes I think that notion is just an excuse, because there are plenty of older generations that aren't so sequestered.
Life may be a wonderful opportunity for many, but ultimately it is a learning opportunity to know that one doesn't need to be human to have awareness. The suffering and lack of accountability humans can create and don't take accountability for is staggering to my mind. Many people born are just really existing, not really living. They were born out of their own parents self-gratification and ignorance of conditioning. The breeder is the only one to blame here.
My mother was the type who never thought about homosexuality. Lol. When I was like 10 years old I started to suspect I might be one of these "homosexuals" that nobody seemed to like. So I asked my older sister "What's a homosexual?" She told me it was a man who dressed up like a woman! I was aghast! I knew that wasn't me.
I'm curious why you think being an only child is conducive to be being gay? And I'm a bit confused why your mother's opinion on homosexuality would have any effect on you as a child? Did she assume you were gay? What was your mother's reaction when you told her you were gay? My mother shook her head and told me it would be a hard life and that "it would never be accepted". But as I said, my family didn't reject me over it. They still didn't like it though.
My dad was toxic. He was cold and always critical of me. I didn't speak to him for years. Finally when I was about 30, we gradually started talking. He had mellowed and I found out he was actually a good guy. He just had trouble expressing emotion.
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Post by thekindercarebear (C/F/M) on Apr 13, 2024 20:57:55 GMT
lol yes.
today i woke up at a nice 9am, took my wife and kids to costco, then 2 book shops to spy on them, and then get lunch.
around noon i came into work, took care of 2 customers right off the bat, and am now working on 6 new desktops til maybe 7 or 8 or 9pm tonight.
and i don't mind.
let's be honest here, if i were not at work i'd be sitting at home either watching nothing on TV or taking a nap while my wife is working (she's a CPA, it's her busy season) and my kids are talking to their friends through facetime or whatever it is kids like to use now.
i love what i do and it allows me to earn money so i can do other things i like to do - like eat out with the family, go to movies together, and stuff or to save up money for some future adventure.
:)
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Post by Stammerhead on Apr 13, 2024 23:52:58 GMT
lol yes. today i woke up at a nice 9am, took my wife and kids to costco, then 2 book shops to spy on them, and then get lunch. around noon i came into work, took care of 2 customers right off the bat, and am now working on 6 new desktops til maybe 7 or 8 or 9pm tonight. and i don't mind. let's be honest here, if i were not at work i'd be sitting at home either watching nothing on TV or taking a nap while my wife is working (she's a CPA, it's her busy season) and my kids are talking to their friends through facetime or whatever it is kids like to use now. i love what i do and it allows me to earn money so i can do other things i like to do - like eat out with the family, go to movies together, and stuff or to save up money for some future adventure. :) And then there are the things people do simply because they like doing those things.
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Post by thekindercarebear (C/F/M) on Apr 13, 2024 23:54:05 GMT
lol yes. today i woke up at a nice 9am, took my wife and kids to costco, then 2 book shops to spy on them, and then get lunch. around noon i came into work, took care of 2 customers right off the bat, and am now working on 6 new desktops til maybe 7 or 8 or 9pm tonight. and i don't mind. let's be honest here, if i were not at work i'd be sitting at home either watching nothing on TV or taking a nap while my wife is working (she's a CPA, it's her busy season) and my kids are talking to their friends through facetime or whatever it is kids like to use now. i love what i do and it allows me to earn money so i can do other things i like to do - like eat out with the family, go to movies together, and stuff or to save up money for some future adventure. :) And then there are the things people do simply because they like doing those things.
the fates willing, that's me in 3 years!
doing what i want and praying it won't be a money pit lol
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