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Post by SixOfTheRichest on Apr 14, 2024 10:35:50 GMT
You have several siblings don't you? If so, I doubt that your mother would have even contemplated homosexuality in any of her children. If you were an only kid perhaps and no father in the picture, your mother may have been controlling and protective of you. My mother could be controlling, but she could also be easy to manipulate at times too. She didn't know, (and still doesn't), know much about what she is talking about. This would frustrate me to the max as a kid, as it was more difficult as a child to articulate to her and her toxic, misguided judgements.
I'm pleased I got away eventually in my very early 20's and while confidence was knocked right out of me, I managed to regain some via other outlets, but not really until I was in my 30's. I love my folks, I just find it difficult to respect them as parents and humans in certain ways. Both a product of their era, but sometimes I think that notion is just an excuse, because there are plenty of older generations that aren't so sequestered.
Life may be a wonderful opportunity for many, but ultimately it is a learning opportunity to know that one doesn't need to be human to have awareness. The suffering and lack of accountability humans can create and don't take accountability for is staggering to my mind. Many people born are just really existing, not really living. They were born out of their own parents self-gratification and ignorance of conditioning. The breeder is the only one to blame here.
My mother was the type who never thought about homosexuality. Lol. When I was like 10 years old I started to suspect I might be one of these "homosexuals" that nobody seemed to like. So I asked my older sister "What's a homosexual?" She told me it was a man who dressed up like a woman! I was aghast! I knew that wasn't me.
I'm curious why you think being an only child is conducive to be being gay? And I'm a bit confused why your mother's opinion on homosexuality would have any effect on you as a child? Did she assume you were gay? What was your mother's reaction when you told her you were gay? My mother shook her head and told me it would be a hard life and that "it would never be accepted". But as I said, my family didn't reject me over it. They still didn't like it though.
My dad was toxic. He was cold and always critical of me. I didn't speak to him for years. Finally when I was about 30, we gradually started talking. He had mellowed and I found out he was actually a good guy. He just had trouble expressing emotion.
Your sister comment is of course due to ignorant hetero conditioning onto her. The stereotype image, while it does exist, is also superficial and not layered enough.
I never claimed that being an only child is conducive to being gay. You claimed your mother was never toxic or controlling and you ARE gay. What was implied, is that if you were an only child and there was no man around in her life, she may have become toxic possessive of her only son. Sexuality isn't relevant. Boys need a father and a decent role model around too.
If my mother's opinion of homosexuality affected me as a child, it is because she was of the belief that it was taboo and wrong, therefore I was wrong. I wasn't out as a kid, even if she may have suspected. She also said she would rather I wasn't. She's a simpleminded idiot and I say that with love, because it is fact.
If parents are going to be like your dad, or like my parents as kids, these kind of breeders have no business breeding. They are naive and irresponsible, not to mention pig ignorant.
I grew up with self-worth issues too. I'm not saying you didn't, but you come across as though you were more confident within your whole being, including your physical image.
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Post by SixOfTheRichest on Apr 30, 2024 16:02:30 GMT
lol yes. today i woke up at a nice 9am, took my wife and kids to costco, then 2 book shops to spy on them, and then get lunch. around noon i came into work, took care of 2 customers right off the bat, and am now working on 6 new desktops til maybe 7 or 8 or 9pm tonight. and i don't mind. let's be honest here, if i were not at work i'd be sitting at home either watching nothing on TV or taking a nap while my wife is working (she's a CPA, it's her busy season) and my kids are talking to their friends through facetime or whatever it is kids like to use now. i love what i do and it allows me to earn money so i can do other things i like to do - like eat out with the family, go to movies together, and stuff or to save up money for some future adventure.  And then there are the things people do simply because they like doing those things. People will always pursue their interests, that is just fundamental human nature. What needs to be at the core of it though, is why are we doing these things, what benefit is it providing and is it conducive and wholesome for the collective whole? I’d say many take what they do and have for granted. “Mass” breeding is a prime example of detrimental consequences for the earth. Ergo, this should cease immediately. |
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Post by Stammerhead on Apr 30, 2024 16:06:06 GMT
And then there are the things people do simply because they like doing those things. People will always pursue their interests, that is just fundamental human nature. What needs to be at the core of it though, is why are we doing these things, what benefit is it providing and is it conducive and wholesome for the collective whole? I’d say many take what they do and have for granted. “Mass” breeding is a prime example of detrimental consequences for the earth. Ergo, this should cease immediately. If you keep on making babies just because you like making babies perhaps it’s time to get a new hobby. |
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Post by SixOfTheRichest on Apr 30, 2024 16:33:46 GMT
People will always pursue their interests, that is just fundamental human nature. What needs to be at the core of it though, is why are we doing these things, what benefit is it providing and is it conducive and wholesome for the collective whole? I’d say many take what they do and have for granted. “Mass” breeding is a prime example of detrimental consequences for the earth. Ergo, this should cease immediately. If you keep on making babies just because you like making babies perhaps it’s time to get a new hobby. I don’t make babies, genius! Noobs like you do. |
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Post by Stammerhead on Apr 30, 2024 16:54:38 GMT
If you keep on making babies just because you like making babies perhaps it’s time to get a new hobby. I don’t make babies, genius! Noobs like you do. Don’t take it personally… one; anyone; people in general: a tiny animal you can't even see |
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Post by bomtombadil on Apr 30, 2024 17:44:58 GMT
You're mixing up Buddhism and The Big Lebowski
My Christian sister warned me not to do it, that it leaves you vulnerable to demon possession. That sorta makes sense. Well it would make sense, except for the whole demons don't exist thing. |
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Post by Prince Myshkin on Apr 30, 2024 18:04:25 GMT
My Christian sister warned me not to do it, that it leaves you vulnerable to demon possession. That sorta makes sense. Well it would make sense, except for the whole demons don't exist thing. I 99% percent don't believe in that religious gibberish. However, every culture believes in demons of some sort, so if they do exist, it kinda makes sense. |
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Post by SixOfTheRichest on Apr 30, 2024 21:29:48 GMT
I don’t make babies, genius! Noobs like you do. Don’t take it personally… one; anyone; people in general: a tiny animal you can't even see Humans are the disaster area, not other species. |
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Post by Stammerhead on Apr 30, 2024 23:22:53 GMT
Don’t take it personally… one; anyone; people in general: a tiny animal you can't even see Humans are the disaster area, not other species. Okay Greta. ![[rednose]](//storage.proboards.com/6870873/images/LBNnLnPvUOQtpcdnPXIu.gif) |
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Post by C-3POtatoe on May 1, 2024 1:10:40 GMT
Ok.
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Post by SixOfTheRichest on May 1, 2024 7:00:57 GMT
Humans are the disaster area, not other species. Okay Greta. Okay Laquisha.
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