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Post by america on Jul 8, 2022 22:47:24 GMT
LOL. Ohhh no. Welp, a lot of Gen Zers don't even show an interest in getting a drivers license. This is the clay to mold, at this point. You can only train him as best you can. The interest I have in seeing you not be mean to him is that (in addition to being unhelpful) it makes you feel bad. Unlimited internal eyerolling might help get you through; inner or outright laughing may also help. By the way, congrats on having a trainee! I told you you'd be supervisory in no time. Lol, yeah supervisor, right! I think I got him because nobody else wants to listen him blabber about Harry Potter. He is a nice kid, when I took him to lunch I met his gf and their 3 year old daughter, I honestly want to help him get the job at his 90 days. He makes me look like Cool Hand Luke though. Well, your secret's out. You're a stud. You're a bespectacled husband and father of three, bagels and lox-eating, stone cold, steel-nerved badass. And that's why we love you. 🤗 Lol, about Harry Potter blathering; those books are older than he is, sounds like. Crazy to think. Aww, you're a good man. If he can meet you halfway, he'll get the job. Maybe say that the next time he slips: You gotta meet me halfway here. I need you to focus. That type of thing. People feel good about being needed. A small difference like I need you to focus versus You need to focus can make someone less defensive in the face of constructive criticism. Lol, but he sounds too spacey to even get defensive, frankly. But yeah, try stuff like You gotta meet me halfway here. I need you to focus in a positive tone, with a smile and a nod. In your mind you can be throttling him, lol.
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Post by ayatollah on Jul 8, 2022 23:01:03 GMT
Lol, yeah supervisor, right! I think I got him because nobody else wants to listen him blabber about Harry Potter. He is a nice kid, when I took him to lunch I met his gf and their 3 year old daughter, I honestly want to help him get the job at his 90 days. He makes me look like Cool Hand Luke though. Well, your secret's out. You're a stud. You're a bespectacled husband and father of three, bagels and lox-eating, stone cold, steel-nerved badass. And that's why we love you. 🤗 Lol, about Harry Potter blathering; those books are older than he is, sounds like. Crazy to think. Aww, you're a good man. If he can meet you halfway, he'll get the job. Maybe say that the next time he slips: You gotta meet me halfway here. I need you to focus. That type of thing. People feel good about being needed. A small difference like I need you to focus versus You need to focus can make someone less defensive in the face of constructive criticism. Lol, but he sounds too spacey to even get defensive, frankly. But yeah, try stuff like You gotta meet me halfway here. I need you to focus in a positive tone, with a smile and a nod. In your mind you can be throttling him, lol. That's a good way to put it, "I need you to focus" maybe I'll add "...so we both look good when this is finished". How'd you know I wear glasses? Did I mention that here or were they visible in my bald spot pics?
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Post by america on Jul 8, 2022 23:13:36 GMT
Well, your secret's out. You're a stud. You're a bespectacled husband and father of three, bagels and lox-eating, stone cold, steel-nerved badass. And that's why we love you. 🤗 Lol, about Harry Potter blathering; those books are older than he is, sounds like. Crazy to think. Aww, you're a good man. If he can meet you halfway, he'll get the job. Maybe say that the next time he slips: You gotta meet me halfway here. I need you to focus. That type of thing. People feel good about being needed. A small difference like I need you to focus versus You need to focus can make someone less defensive in the face of constructive criticism. Lol, but he sounds too spacey to even get defensive, frankly. But yeah, try stuff like You gotta meet me halfway here. I need you to focus in a positive tone, with a smile and a nod. In your mind you can be throttling him, lol. That's a good way to put it, "I need you to focus" maybe I'll add "... so we both look good when this is finished". Yas! Now you're cooking with gas. Kinship, we're in this together-type stuff, all extremely positive and constructive; you are on the path, my friend. It was the alligator pic that flummoxed me so that bartlesby had to super discreetly pop in and explain it without splaining it. Who says that guy's always so mean? Me? Possibly. My bad. Your shadow is wearing specs in that. Wasn't as eagle-eyed as when Flying Monkeys spotted papamihel 's knee socks in the reflection of some antique store furniture, but I get by.
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