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Post by PaulsLaugh on Mar 5, 2024 15:48:48 GMT
Is being clueless natural to females? You can’t even see the breach of love and protection that a father is suppose to naturally have his daughter. You know who she is as the men on this board watch you insult her. Obviously, you do not respect or love her, but think she’s just another “clueless woman.” God help, that little girl. I hope she survives you. Being clueless comes natural to 12 year olds, it's totally forgivable. I could be less charitable towards her mother encouraging nonsense but I'm really not bothered by that either. So what do you think? Flirt with other boys in an attempt to make Aiden jealous, or move on to greener pastures? Love isn't always giving comfort, sometimes it's telling you what you do not want to hear. I'd never call her clueless but I think she should find another boy. Too late. You’ve opened yourself up to criticism. Why are you letting a 12-year old date?
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Post by ayatollah on Mar 5, 2024 15:52:12 GMT
Being clueless comes natural to 12 year olds, it's totally forgivable. I could be less charitable towards her mother encouraging nonsense but I'm really not bothered by that either. So what do you think? Flirt with other boys in an attempt to make Aiden jealous, or move on to greener pastures? Love isn't always giving comfort, sometimes it's telling you what you do not want to hear. I'd never call her clueless but I think she should find another boy. Too late. You’ve opened yourself up to criticism. Why are you letting a 12-year old date? She isn't dating, this is a boy at school she likes. There will be no dates for a few years. However, I'm realistic, she is going to develop romantic interests at her age. I can't stop that so the best I can do is steer her in a good direction. So what do you think? Make him jealous or forget him?
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Post by PaulsLaugh on Mar 5, 2024 16:03:20 GMT
Too late. You’ve opened yourself up to criticism. Why are you letting a 12-year old date? She isn't dating, this is a boy at school she likes. There will be no dates for a few years. However, I'm realistic, she is going to develop romantic interests at her age. I can't stop that so the best I can do is steer her in a good direction. That’s a relief. Until she does, just respect her as a unique individual you brought into this world and totally responsible for, and let her be a typical 12-year old who gets silly over boys. She is not naturally clueless, she is learning from you how to be a happy, successful person. Love and resist the desire to make her an object of ridicule even in your heart. That you had to come here with a loaded question abusing your underage daughter as the discussion fodder begs the question, is being clueless natural to fathers?
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Post by ayatollah on Mar 5, 2024 16:35:48 GMT
She isn't dating, this is a boy at school she likes. There will be no dates for a few years. However, I'm realistic, she is going to develop romantic interests at her age. I can't stop that so the best I can do is steer her in a good direction. That’s a relief. Until she does, just respect her as a unique individual you brought into this world and totally responsible for, and let her be a typical 12-year old who gets silly over boys. She is not naturally clueless, she is learning from you how to be a happy, successful person. Well that's why I want her to be realistic about this! Calling a kid clueless on an anonymous forum isn't abusive. Kids are naturally clueless, but I'd expect more from adult women. I still haven't gotten an answer from you. That's why I like you though.
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Post by PaulsLaugh on Mar 5, 2024 16:42:10 GMT
That’s a relief. Until she does, just respect her as a unique individual you brought into this world and totally responsible for, and let her be a typical 12-year old who gets silly over boys. She is not naturally clueless, she is learning from you how to be a happy, successful person. Well that's why I want her to be realistic about this! Calling a kid clueless on an anonymous forum isn't abusive. Kids are naturally clueless, but I'd expect more from adult women. I still haven't gotten an answer from you. That's why I like you though. Subject: Is being clueless natural to females? The answer is no. Go hug your daughter and tell her you love her no matter what.
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Post by ayatollah on Mar 5, 2024 18:59:55 GMT
Well that's why I want her to be realistic about this! Calling a kid clueless on an anonymous forum isn't abusive. Kids are naturally clueless, but I'd expect more from adult women. I still haven't gotten an answer from you. That's why I like you though. Subject: Is being clueless natural to females? The answer is no. Go hug your daughter and tell her you love her no matter what. Yes ma'am.
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Post by PaulsLaugh on Mar 5, 2024 19:01:34 GMT
Subject: Is being clueless natural to females? The answer is no. Go hug your daughter and tell her you love her no matter what. Yes ma'am. 🥇
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Post by SixOfTheRichest on Mar 6, 2024 12:02:51 GMT
As some of you know I have a middle school aged daughter. She likes a boy at school named Aiden, but Aiden barely takes any notice of her. Her brilliant plan to win him over is this: She is going to flirt with other boys. She can't flirt with him because she is shy, but she will flirt with other boys. I was about to tell her what a bad idea that is and chalk it up to her youth and inexperience, but mom interjects saying "That's right, men love to be jealous!" Do women really think that men think this way?!?! The only signal she will be sending to Aiden is "I like this other boy and not you". There is no telling how many couples that could have been together didn't end up together, and how many women that didn't get the guy they wanted, because of this scatterbrain thinking. You tell us, you're married to the clueless gender and are apparently working on another environmentally and economically damaging brat to appease the self-gratification of the clueless one.
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Post by ayatollah on Mar 6, 2024 14:17:08 GMT
So, she decided to flirt with a kid named Joseph yesterday. She laughed hysterically at something he said, and told him she liked his hair and fixed his collar. Now everyone thinks she likes Joseph, including Joey himself who wants her phone number and social media. She is embarrassed, and Aiden didn't seem to even notice.
Daddy was right.
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Post by Flying Monkeys on Mar 6, 2024 14:53:35 GMT
So, she decided to flirt with a kid named Joseph yesterday. She laughed hysterically at something he said, and told him she liked his hair and fixed his collar. Now everyone thinks she likes Joseph, including Joey himself who wants her phone number and social media. She is embarrassed, and Aiden didn't seem to even notice. Daddy was right. And lesson learned. I hope you punished Mrs. Ayatollah appropriately....
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Post by Roxy on Mar 6, 2024 15:36:01 GMT
So, she decided to flirt with a kid named Joseph yesterday. She laughed hysterically at something he said, and told him she liked his hair and fixed his collar. Now everyone thinks she likes Joseph, including Joey himself who wants her phone number and social media. She is embarrassed, and Aiden didn't seem to even notice. Daddy was right. She’s twelve. You’re coming off as petty and vindictive because you’re thirty-five. And her father. Be less psycho and more dad.
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Post by Flying Monkeys on Mar 6, 2024 15:47:28 GMT
I appear to be the only person in this thread who knows you are not criticising the daughter, it's the mother.
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Post by peachy on Mar 6, 2024 17:15:30 GMT
So, she decided to flirt with a kid named Joseph yesterday. She laughed hysterically at something he said, and told him she liked his hair and fixed his collar. Now everyone thinks she likes Joseph, including Joey himself who wants her phone number and social media. She is embarrassed, and Aiden didn't seem to even notice. Daddy was right. Did you tell her that 'leading someone on' and pretending to like them while only using them is a mean thing to do? I don't care how old these kids are. They still have feelings too. And I suppose it's different in Hispanic families with the way they raise daughters, but if I told my parents I was going to go flirt with a bunch of boys for whatever reason, they would've had caniption fit.
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Post by ayatollah on Mar 6, 2024 18:31:24 GMT
So, she decided to flirt with a kid named Joseph yesterday. She laughed hysterically at something he said, and told him she liked his hair and fixed his collar. Now everyone thinks she likes Joseph, including Joey himself who wants her phone number and social media. She is embarrassed, and Aiden didn't seem to even notice. Daddy was right. Did you tell her that 'leading someone on' and pretending to like them while only using them is a mean thing to do? I don't care how old these kids are. They still have feelings too. I didn't tell her that, I just said it wouldn't impress Aiden at all. I should've brought it up though. I told her to stop any flirting with Joseph, she already figured that out. I was about to but was taken aback at my wife's quick insistence it was a great idea and just shut up. Anyway, it's good to learn these lessons at 12, I know adults that still play these games.
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Post by ayatollah on Mar 6, 2024 18:32:20 GMT
I appear to be the only person in this thread who knows you are not criticising the daughter, it's the mother. Only Peachy seems to understand.
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