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Post by ayatollah on Feb 13, 2024 19:54:12 GMT
They have a higher standard for who they'd have sex with, while men have a low one, and for some men, it's nonexistent, if she has a vagina they'd stick it in. That's what the phrase means. The second part is "...and men are the gatekeepers of relationships". Going back to what I've discussed in this thread. This is true. Like a lot of women say they have high sex drives, but it's not near a man's. That's why when women who are bodybuilding start taking testosterone, they're like "Oh so that's the sex drive of a man!"
It's also why the male-oriented pornography is one of the, if not the biggest business in the world. You do not see porn for women or strip clubs for women in anywhere close to the capacity that your do for men.
Porn for women is actually huge business, but it's not centered around nudity and fucking. My wife looks at female porn all the time. She loves Hallmark channel movies. It's all fantasy relationships with select, high quality, handsome men. Once again, men can separate sex from relationships (two standards) women apparently can't do it. |
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Post by jeffersoncody on Feb 13, 2024 20:06:56 GMT
I didn’t watch the video, but to answer the question, yes. Girls are trained from a young age that their “virginity” is supposed to be a gift to their male partners. Boys aren’t taught that. Girls are made to sign “purity pledges” to to their fathers, which is really sick. Virginity is used to oppress women and girls. Boys are looked down on for being virgins, like we're losers in life. When I was younger I was ashamed for never having had sex. I've had a bunch of it now, but only with one girl, and some people still think that makes me a failure. Was your now wife also a virgin when you had sex with her the first time ayatollah? |
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Post by San926f on Feb 13, 2024 22:50:31 GMT
No, they don't. There is a constant focus on what women do with their bodies, and the double standards are astounding. There is a conversation going on about one right now in another thread about this actually, actually. I remember one absurd conversation on here describing women as locks and men as keys or some shit? How women are "gatekeepers" to sexThey have a higher standard for who they'd have sex with, while men have a low one, and for some men, it's nonexistent, if she has a vagina they'd stick it in. That's what the phrase means. The second part is "...and men are the gatekeepers of relationships". Going back to what I've discussed in this thread. Women are not gatekeepers of relationships? They can't choose who they want to be with? They are just at the whims of men? These broad strokes are ridiculous. Women are not just sitting around fretting on if they'll get married to someone, anyone. FFS. These archaic attitudes have expired, and some men need to catch up. |
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Post by hugsfromlv426 on Feb 13, 2024 22:51:55 GMT
They have a higher standard for who they'd have sex with, while men have a low one, and for some men, it's nonexistent, if she has a vagina they'd stick it in. That's what the phrase means. The second part is "...and men are the gatekeepers of relationships". Going back to what I've discussed in this thread. Women are not gatekeepers of relationships? They can't choose who they want to be with? They are just at the whims of men? These broad strokes are ridiculous. Women are not just sitting around fretting on if they'll get married to someone, anyone. FFS. These archaic attitudes have expired, and some men need to catch up. Easy with the sexist language! |
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Post by ayatollah on Feb 13, 2024 22:57:08 GMT
They have a higher standard for who they'd have sex with, while men have a low one, and for some men, it's nonexistent, if she has a vagina they'd stick it in. That's what the phrase means. The second part is "...and men are the gatekeepers of relationships". Going back to what I've discussed in this thread. Women are not gatekeepers of relationships? They can't choose who they want to be with? They are just at the whims of men? These broad strokes are ridiculous. Women are not just sitting around fretting on if they'll get married to someone, anyone. FFS. These archaic attitudes have expired, and some men need to catch up. I explained why. |
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Post by thorshairspray on Feb 13, 2024 22:58:35 GMT
They have a higher standard for who they'd have sex with, while men have a low one, and for some men, it's nonexistent, if she has a vagina they'd stick it in. That's what the phrase means. The second part is "...and men are the gatekeepers of relationships". Going back to what I've discussed in this thread. Women are not gatekeepers of relationships? They can't choose who they want to be with? They are just at the whims of men? These broad strokes are ridiculous. Women are not just sitting around fretting on if they'll get married to someone, anyone. FFS. These archaic attitudes have expired, and some men need to catch up. Mate selection in humans is done by females 99% of the time. Thats the point he is making. |
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Post by San926f on Feb 13, 2024 23:03:07 GMT
Women are not gatekeepers of relationships? They can't choose who they want to be with? They are just at the whims of men? These broad strokes are ridiculous. Women are not just sitting around fretting on if they'll get married to someone, anyone. FFS. These archaic attitudes have expired, and some men need to catch up. Mate selection in humans is done by females 99% of the time. Thats the point he is making. He said men are the gatekeepers of relationships. I find that an absurd statement. |
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Post by thorshairspray on Feb 13, 2024 23:04:59 GMT
Mate selection in humans is done by females 99% of the time. Thats the point he is making. He said men are the gatekeepers of relationships. I find that an absurd statement. Oops, misread that. Yeah, its the opposite. Women are far more dominant in this area than men. |
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Post by ayatollah on Feb 13, 2024 23:26:28 GMT
Mate selection in humans is done by females 99% of the time. Thats the point he is making. He said men are the gatekeepers of relationships. I find that an absurd statement. Women really dislike this, but often the men they choose to have sex with do not want relationships with them. They find it humiliating and I can see why, but it's the truth. |
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Post by ayatollah on Feb 13, 2024 23:27:26 GMT
He said men are the gatekeepers of relationships. I find that an absurd statement. Oops, misread that. Yeah, its the opposite. Women are far more dominant in this area than men. Think of all the women you'd have sex with. Then think of the women you'd consider girlfriend material. Which one is bigger? |
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Post by 🐕 🐕 🐕 🐕 🐕 🐈⬛ Molly on Feb 13, 2024 23:33:37 GMT
Oops, misread that. Yeah, its the opposite. Women are far more dominant in this area than men. Think of all the women you'd have sex with. Then think of the women you'd consider girlfriend material. Which one is bigger? And those that you consider “girlfriend material” have no choice but to consider you “boyfriend material”? |
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Post by ayatollah on Feb 13, 2024 23:37:50 GMT
Think of all the women you'd have sex with. Then think of the women you'd consider girlfriend material. Which one is bigger? And those that you consider “girlfriend material” have no choice but to consider you “boyfriend material”? You don't understand. |
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Post by San926f on Feb 13, 2024 23:41:09 GMT
He said men are the gatekeepers of relationships. I find that an absurd statement. Oops, misread that. Yeah, its the opposite. Women are far more dominant in this area than men. I don't think you can broad sweep on something that is so damn individual and personal. To say one sex or the other makes those decisions is just silly. For most of history, women depended on men for their livelyhood. They had no choice but to marry, or be spinsters in the care of their families. In the first world, this has changed. Women have more say in who and when they marry, or if they marry at all. These decisions are now a joint-process. Some men don't like it. That's some tough damn titty they're just gonna have to suck up. It's not going back to the way it was. Women got the vote in 1920, and we've been slowly but surely making sure our daughters and granddaughters would always be able to take care of themselves, and do it well, ever since. At 47, I could already be remarried since my husband I split 7-years-ago. I'm not sure if I even want to live with anyone again. I kind of feel like I might be all set. It's not that I don't enjoy the company of men, but I don't need to co-habitate anymore. I'm sure there will come a time when I stop attracting men my own age and +/- a few years. That's okay too. Eventually my estrogen will dry up and I won't care about weekend company anymore either. |
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Post by ayatollah on Feb 13, 2024 23:41:42 GMT
Think of all the women you'd have sex with. Then think of the women you'd consider girlfriend material. Which one is bigger? And those that you consider “girlfriend material” have no choice but to consider you “boyfriend material”? I know I won't get an honest answer but... Consider all the men you'd have sex with. Then consider all the men you'd want a relationship with. Both groups are probably the same size and the men. |
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Post by ayatollah on Feb 13, 2024 23:42:21 GMT
Oops, misread that. Yeah, its the opposite. Women are far more dominant in this area than men. I don't think you can broad sweep on something that is so damn individual and personal. To say one sex or the other makes those decisions is just silly. For most of history, women depended on men for their livelyhood. They had no choice but to marry, or be spinsters in the care of their families. In the first world, this has changed. Women have more say in who and when they marry, or if they marry at all. These decisions are now a joint-process. Some men don't like it. That's some tough damn titty tgey're just gonns have to suck up. It's not going back to the way it was. Women got the vote in 1920, and we've been slowly but making sure our daughters and granddaughters would always he able to take care themselves, and do it well, ever since. At 47, I could already be remarried since my husband I split 7-years-ago. I'm not sure if I even want to live with anyone again. I kind of feel like I might be all set. It's not that I don't enjoy the company of men, but I don't need to co-habitate anymore. I'm sure there will come a time when I stop attracting men my own age and +/- a few years. That's okay too. Eventually my estrogen will dry up and I won't care about weekend company anymore either. You don't make the decision for anyone. |
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