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Post by π π π π π πββ¬ Molly on Feb 14, 2024 15:53:44 GMT
you seem to equate virginity with fidelity. You can be in a monogamous relationship, but it doesn't work out and so move on to another relationship where you eventually marry.Β It doesn't mean that person is going to cheat on their spouse, but they aren't virgins either.Β This is where most people are.Β Β Tell me, how do most marriages turn out? So your position is that if you arenβt a virgin when you get married, youβre more likely to divorce? By your admittance, you werenβt a virgin when you got βmarriedβ. I mean, youβre not really married, but your pretend marriage seems to be going ok. You even had threesomes, so you claim. You also had a kid in high school, since you claim to be 36 but have a kid in college.
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Post by Swimm on Feb 14, 2024 16:48:00 GMT
Listening to women discuss this and divulge how they feel is really interesting but also tells me just how different we are, at least as far as sex is concerned. To me it seems like women have it easy. You don't have to do anything, you can live as-is and you never have to prove a thing to anyone. Living as-is is actually encouraged! Life on easy mode. No, they don't. There is a constant focus on what women do with their bodies, and the double standards are astounding. There is a conversation going on about one right now in another thread about this actually, actually. I remember one absurd conversation on here describing women as locks and men as keys or some shit? How women are "gatekeepers" to sex? It was such a medievil mentality, and essentially releases men of any accountability of their sexual proclivities. It's what puts women in burkas in some parts of the world. Men have no control over their urges, so that whore better not show any ankle. I get why someone may want to marry a virgin for religious reasons. I've known men AND women who desired that, and I think that's fine, and actually very sweet. I also think it's no one else's business or place to judge. And it's the same for anyone. I'm going to be 47-years-old in a few months. I am certainly no virgin. And guess what? I have no regrets about the lovers I've had, because they were men I cared for deeply, and still do. Anyone else wants to judge me for it, go ahead, you're opinion and 25 cents won't even buy a cup of coffee. This is false. "Body positivity" is exclusive to Women. Men are not allowed to have standards. Movies, video games, etc have spent years challenging beauty standard norms( funny how this only pertains to women) So we get 400 pound whales on Sports illustrated. Or ugly ass female character models in video games. However, you will never see a 300 pound balding fat guy being modeled to "challenged beauty standards? Why? Cause the feminist's are hypocrites who lust after masculine dudes with a chiseled Jaw.. Men must accept lower standards for women..But women themselves don't. Thats the Message society has been sending out for years now.
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Post by π π π π π πββ¬ Molly on Feb 14, 2024 16:57:21 GMT
No, they don't. There is a constant focus on what women do with their bodies, and the double standards are astounding. There is a conversation going on about one right now in another thread about this actually, actually. I remember one absurd conversation on here describing women as locks and men as keys or some shit? How women are "gatekeepers" to sex? It was such a medievil mentality, and essentially releases men of any accountability of their sexual proclivities. It's what puts women in burkas in some parts of the world. Men have no control over their urges, so that whore better not show any ankle. I get why someone may want to marry a virgin for religious reasons. I've known men AND women who desired that, and I think that's fine, and actually very sweet. I also think it's no one else's business or place to judge. And it's the same for anyone. I'm going to be 47-years-old in a few months. I am certainly no virgin. And guess what? I have no regrets about the lovers I've had, because they were men I cared for deeply, and still do. Anyone else wants to judge me for it, go ahead, you're opinion and 25 cents won't even buy a cup of coffee. This is false. "Body positivity" is exclusive to Women.Β Men are not allowed to have standards. Movies, video games, etcΒ have spent years challenging beauty standard norms( funny how this only pertains to women) So we get 400 pound whales on Sports illustrated. Or ugly ass female character models in video games. However, you will never see a 300 pound balding fat guy being modeled to "challenged beauty standards? Why? Cause the feminist's are hypocrites whoΒ lust after masculine dudes with a chiseled Jaw.. Men must accept lower standards for women..But women themselves don't. Thats the Message society has been sending out for years now.Β Apparently you know nothing about women. Women have raving about βdad bodsβ for years.
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Post by San926f on Feb 14, 2024 19:12:26 GMT
This is false. "Body positivity" is exclusive to Women.Β Men are not allowed to have standards. Movies, video games, etcΒ have spent years challenging beauty standard norms( funny how this only pertains to women) So we get 400 pound whales on Sports illustrated. Or ugly ass female character models in video games. However, you will never see a 300 pound balding fat guy being modeled to "challenged beauty standards? Why? Cause the feminist's are hypocrites whoΒ lust after masculine dudes with a chiseled Jaw.. Men must accept lower standards for women..But women themselves don't. Thats the Message society has been sending out for years now.Β Apparently you know nothing about women. Women have raving about βdad bodsβ for years. It's all so tiresome. I'm not arguing the body positivity shit now. It's just the same arguments on a loop. Exiting thread.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 14, 2024 20:59:51 GMT
If you're referring to Molly though then boooooo. I like Molly.
I don't understand what there is to make fun of. If it's his choice, it's his choice, although I'm not above speculating there's some grooming going on in there. I could see making light of the pledge, but not him for signing it. Not if he was a kid and made to think it was legally binding or something. But it seems like he found his life on terms that were either his or that he made his, so good for him.
What "grooming" would encourage kids not to have sex before marriage? Grooming would be the opposite, saying it's okay to experiment sexuality, which is not entirely unlike the LGBT curriculum being taught in schools, hence the opposition to it. In a rare move, I fixed a statement for you.
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